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Sitting between me and Alex Leo is the lunchroom lasagna. There are kids running around every corner, yelling on their way to the playground past my hastily set up interview station.
“Have you heard of Bobby Flay?” Alex asks as he begins his story.
No, I don't know Bobby Flay. I don’t know much about food in the first place. And yet, Alex’s passion for burgers transcends my lack of knowledge. My ignorance doesn’t matter as Alex recounts his burger “awakening.” He was six, sorely disappointed he wasn’t able to get a burger from McDonald’s. His grandmother suggested they try Bobby’s Burger Palace in New Jersey’s Riverside Mall. Alex remembers every detail of what happened next: he fell in love with a burger, and it sent him on a quest to find more food.
Alex’s grandmother, the woman who brought him to the Palace in the first place, cooked El Salvadorian food for him growing up. “She was my caretaker in my formative years,” Alex told me when I asked about her influence. That changed when Alex, who spent most of his life in New York and New Jersey, moved to Utah. This would be daunting to any kid, but the familial changes were especially difficult for Alex. His grandmother, who Alex says taught him to “be kind first,” became less of a presence in his world. Alex Leo was left in suburban Utah without familiar faces and burgers, which was unsettling for a kid that “grew up on Shake Shack.” Culturally, Alex felt stifled. He stresses that when he moved to Utah, “the food was not up to his standards.” But after a bit of digging, Alex found his salvation in authentic jewels of diversity amidst the monocultural setting: restaurants.
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He started with In and Out, quickly moving to Crown Burger, and then to discoveries all over the state and wherever he travelled, meeting a diversity of people who shared a love of food. Alex started using social media to express his passion for burgers. He has over 1,000 followers on Instagram (), where he posts photos of his food adventures. The age of social media, Alex says, has helped him create connection with people across a wider network.
As we were discussing this, a young boy runs past, yelling, “Hey, Burger Guy!” I stop and laugh, reminded of the identity that Alex has crafted even within the ñ community. I mention his credibility, and Alex smiles almost imperceptibly. “He actually taught me about the different stews of Ramadan,” he says, nodding to the boy.
Our conversation reminds me of the time in eighth grade when Alex, a seemingly quiet kid, stood in front of the podium and started speaking with confidence about an absurd topic: burgers. It sounded like a silly topic for a student government speech, but he spoke about the inclusivity of food communities in a way that compelled us to vote for him. Since then, we have elected Alex to represent us every year he’s been at ñ. Next year, Alex will serve as ñ's Student Body President.
Now, as we approach our senior year, I can see that Alex has dedicated his life to something bigger than making it through high school. He’s dedicated his life to his grandmother and the lessons she taught him over traditionally-prepared meals during his childhood. Alex works at Harmon’s every Friday night to earn enough money to take his sister out for dinner on Saturday. He says that “investing in a good meal” is, in turn, investing in other people’s stories. The wisdom that Alex has captured through his taste buds reminds me that life’s lessons and passions can be found in deceivingly simple places, like between two sesame buns.
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Celebrate 5 years since graduation with your classmates. Reconnect, reminisce, and enjoy an evening of conversation, shared memories, and celebration with fellow members of the Class of 2021. Hearty appetizers and a selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be provided.
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Come together with ñ alumni from across the entire 1990s for an evening of reconnecting and reminiscing! This combined reunion is a chance to celebrate the friendships, memories, and moments that made your ñ years so special. Enjoy hearty appetizers and a variety of drinks, including alcoholic and non-alcoholic options, while catching up with old friends and sharing laughs about your school days.
Saturday, May 16 | 7:30 – 11:30 AM | Murray Science Center
We’re bringing back birding! Who remembers the Class IX Bird Project? Don’t miss your chance to join this fun, family-friendly event with Mark Bromley, James Harris, Mike Johnson ‘88, and Bekka Joslin. We will meet at ñ and take a bus together. Don’t forget to bring your binoculars (we will have extras on hand if you don’t have your own).
Friday, May 15 | 6:30 – 7:30 PM | East Field
We’re excited to see ñ Alumni at our annual Alumni Soccer Game! This ñ tradition gives former players the chance to return to the field, reconnect with old teammates, and showcase their skills in a friendly atmosphere. Whether you played with us just a few years ago or several decades ago, we look forward to seeing you back on the field. Make sure to bring friends and family to cheer you on!
Friday, May 15 | 5:00 – 7:00 PM | Main Quad | No Registration Required
Join us for a fun BBQ bash at ñ with current families and ñ staff and faculty. It’s a great way to connect with your ñ classmates and enjoy delicious food before the Alumni Soccer Game!
No registration is needed for the Spring BBQ. Please join us!
Friday, May 15 | 4:00 – 5:00 PM | Haught Visual Arts Gallery at ñ | No Registration Required
ñ has always been a place where creativity thrives. Join us for the first-ever Alumni Art Show in the Haught Visual Arts Gallery and reconnect with the creative spirit that shaped your time here. This exhibition features work by 16 ñ Alumni artists, reflecting a range of disciplines, perspectives, and practices.
Brief Remarks at 4:00 pm will be offered by Gallery Manager and Curator Charlie Tadlock, followed by remarks from some of the Alumni Artists.
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Friday, May 15 | 2:15 – 3:30 PM | Miller Student Commons | Registration Highly Recommended
Ever wish you could go back and sit in your favorite class one more time? This Alumni Weekend, you can. We’re bringing you back “Back to Class” where you’ll have the chance to slip into a real, live Upper School classroom and experience ñ exactly as it exists today. Same teachers, same energy, same magic. Come relive the feeling.
Friday, May 15 | 12:45– 1:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
Don’t leave lunch just yet. Immediately following the Kick-Off, Head of School Andrew Menke will take a few minutes to share what’s been happening at ñ; the changes, the milestones, and the exciting things on the horizon. It’s a chance to hear straight from the source about the school you helped shape and where it’s headed next. No sign-up needed, just pull up a seat.
Friday, May 15 | 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
Kick off Alumni Weekend the right way — with good food and even better company. Join us in the new Miller Student Commons for ñ’s all-inclusive dining experience, and spend the lunch hour reconnecting with the faculty who made your time here unforgettable. Pull up a chair, catch up with old favorites, and let the weekend begin. No registration is required for this event.
Friday, May 15 | 1:00 – 2:00 PM | Miller Student Commons | No Registration Required
For many of you, Assistant Head of School, Todd Winters, was the first person who ever showed you and your parents around our 41 acre campus. Now he’s back to do it again! Todd will lead you through ñ’s beautiful newest additions and recent transformations, giving you a firsthand look at what your years here helped build. Whether it’s your first tour with Todd or your second, you won’t want to miss this one.